Complete the questionnaire as best you can before you sit down to negotiate with your former spouse. When answering, consider the other party`s position and what would work realistically for your situation. Use this worksheet while negotiating a deal. Not ready to file for divorce yet? Option #1 allows you to organize yourself in writing everything, as recommended by lawyers and judges. This option is free. If you and your spouse agree, you may want to consider filing your own divorce. Option #2 allows you to easily complete your own divorce forms and offers progressive submission procedures. A fee is levied for this option. Who pays what amount for child care? (use child care guidelines) . Will you meet to check and review support payments? Where do children spend holidays and school holidays? . The remaining family allowances? How is the family home managed? (z.B. offered for sale, stays at one of the parties) Who has daily custody, control and custody of children? Do you agree to share financial information? (e.B.
annual foreign exchange tax returns, taxes) How are payments made? (z.B. cheque, direct deposit) . . List all other family real estate. How will they be distributed? When will payments be made? (z.B first of each month) What is the expected time for the parents? (Try to be specific with date and time) Other issues about children that should be discussed? How are medical costs covered? (z.B. under benefits).